Yesterday a girl was stolen, now she is
already married. Bride-kidnapping is considered one of the traditions of the
Kyrgyz people when a man steals a woman and makes her his wife. There are cases
when a girl agrees to marry and theft is simply played as the tradition.
Moreover, there are many cases when girls are stolen without their consent. In
order to leave this place, girls are prevented by the “curse”. It is
believed that the girl who left the house in which she was brought will be
unhappy. Bride-kidnapping is a crime and it must be prohibited. Here, human
rights are violated, stereotypes take root and another miserable family
Stealing things, stealing an animal is
considered a crime, and stealing a person is even more. Every person has rights.
This is spelled out in the constitution of the country. Man as a creature has
the right to freedom of speech, freedom of choice, freedom of thought. No
person has the right to steal another person, it does not matter for what
purposes it was committed if there is no consent of the second party. When the
bride is abducted, the rights of the victim are violated.
Bride-kidnapping leads to the
strengthening of stereotypes about women. Now the 21st century, an age of
advanced technology and rapid development, when the rights of women equalize
with the rights of men. But in our country it is still possible to meet old,
stereotyped views about the fact that a woman is below status than a man. If a
girl can simply be stolen and made his wife, then of course many will think
that it is possible to do so. So this girl is that thing that you can just take
and make your own. This stereotyped thinking will also be strengthened in the
younger generation, which in the future leads to an increase in theft of
Yesterday, a girl was stolen and now she
became a married woman with a man she did not know. People decide to get
married when they understand that they have fallen in love or the time has
come. According to statistics, most divorces occur in families where the
marriage was made by stealing the bride. The girl does not know the guy, but
they are now a family. Without love and understanding, the family cannot be
happy. So this is miserable family that in the future can get a divorce. There will be even more children without
parents. In such a family the wife, the
husband and children will be unhappy.
A happy family cannot be built without
the participation of two parties, and the victim simply cannot become happy
with the criminal in the place where her rights as a person were violated.
Bride stealing must be stopped because in the future all family will suffer
from it: the bride, the groom and all